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OWNERS & HUSBAND/WIFE TEAM
Meet Sandy & Marshall Meyer
“Other people like to travel, that’s their thing, but we see the world through the relationships we build right here with our guests.” Sandy and Marshall Meyer know something about wedded bliss; they celebrated their 46th wedding anniversary in September 2020. The secret, they would both tell you, is that a successful marriage requires a loving and equal partnership.
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“The owners and managers of this establishment are very kind-hearted people who really do want you to have the best experience. ” – Sophia McGraw
About Sandy & Marshall Meyer
Marshall and Sandy Meyer have worn many hats during their 40+ years of marriage. As young dairy farmers, feeding, milking, and caring for cows were the big focus of their waking hours. They were up before sunrise and in the barn again well after sunset 7 days a week, 365 days a year, tending to their 160+ dairy herd. Sandy and Marshall raised three children on this schedule, teaching them through hard work and example what it takes to build a life one can be proud of.
Sandy’s passion for gardening led her to open a greenhouse business on the farm. It started out smallish but soon outgrew its space. In town, a corner lot was for sale. Soon, Country Care Greenhouse took shape at 702 Main, Hankinson, North Dakota.
Because there were permanent structures already on the property, it didn’t take long for Sandy and Marshall’s entrepreneurial wings to spread. After a considerable makeover, the Hankinson Inn, with 7 individually themed rooms, was born.
In 2010, during an auspicious drive around Lake Elsie, a For Sale sign on the Max Wipperman property caught Sandy’s eye, and an idea settled in her heart. Six months later, after extensive restoration as well as important updates, Lady on the Lake Bed and Breakfast opened her doors in time for the town of Hankinson’s 125 years, Celebration on July 1st.
In the ensuing years, the Lady on the Lake Bed and Breakfast has housed guests from 4 continents, many countries, and all 50 states and some Canadian provinces. As Sandy Meyer has said many times, “Other people like to travel, that’s their thing, but we see the world through the relationships we build right here with our guests.”
Building relationships is what drives Marshall and Sandy Meyer. And this is the main reason they made their next big business move: Lake Elsie Wedding Barn. Their 5-acre property, which was originally part of Colonel Hankinson’s vast holdings, includes a Gothic-arch barn, one of only a handful in the state of North Dakota. Its historic architecture and picturesque location, sandwiched between Lake Elsie to the south and Grass Lake to the north, make this property ideal for public gatherings.
In 2015, after massive reconstruction of the lower level and restoration of the upper level’s hayloft, Lake Elsie Wedding Barn hosted its first wedding. Its timeless rural beauty has been drawing bridal couples and their loved ones ever since.
In 2021, Sandy and Marshall Meyer added an outdoor pavilion, which seats 300+. Now every wedding moment has its own special space, flowing effortlessly from one to the other. From a lakeside ceremony to the (first floor) barn’s social hour to the pavilion’s reception to the hayloft’s dance floor, bridal couples and guests alike feel well taken care of.
“Making others happy is what we’re all about,” Sandy Meyer says. “It’s so rewarding to see all the smiles and playful interactions. Many of our couples continue to stay in touch with us long after their big day.”
“My husband and I had a great time! Marshall and Sandy are great hostesses. Very friendly and ready to make the best experience. They have a beautiful location. Easy to get to. Only a few miles off of Interstate 29.” – Patrick Rivinius, South Dakota
The Perfect Space for Your Celebration
Lake Elsie Wedding Barn is a strikingly reimagined barn, it is the perfect choice for your special day. It pairs rustic, lake charm with modern elegance with a soaring 30-foot-high hayloft arch and 3,000 square feet of useable space, on 5-private acres situated between Grass Lake and Lake Elsie.
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“From the dressing rooms, to the ceremony, to the reception…everything was awe-inspiring!” – Lisa Swenson
More Info About the Property
Built in the 1950s, Lake Elsie Wedding Barn is one of only 4 surviving Gothic Arch barns in North Dakota. Its unique architecture—a soaring, 30-foot high hayloft arch and two full levels totaling 5,000 square feet meant that Sandy and Marshall Meyer couldn’t help but appreciate its potential. Built and used as a dairy barn until 1989, it needed more than a facelift in 2010 when the Meyers purchased the property; it needed a major makeover. And that’s exactly what she got. Resurrecting from the rubble, Lake Elsie Wedding Barn is more striking than ever—blending rustic, lake charm with modern elegance.
Upgrades include:
- All new floors, including a dancefloor in the hayloft
- AC and heat
- Handicap accessibility to the hayloft
- Two full-service bars, one on each level
- Full kitchen
- Indoor restrooms, ADA compliant
- Changing rooms for brides, grooms, and their attendants
- French doors
- Lakeview patio
- WIFI
- Portable sound system [Blue Tooth compatible] with microphones and stand
- Tulle-draped ceilings with soft café lighting on both levels; in addition, chandeliers in the hayloft
- Built-in elevated stage in the hayloft:
- Four 110 V and one 220 V electric outlets
- Dimensions: 11-foot by 11-foot square, with a 9-inch step-up from the dance floor
- White rectangular and round tables with chairs to seat 325 guests
Facilities and Capacity
Couples can accommodate up to 325 guests at this elegant venue. Their spacious barn features vaulted ceilings, warm wood, and cafe lights strung across the arch. The hayloft boasts two decks on each side which lead to their newly renovated restrooms. The space is heated, air-conditioned, and has a stage for your band or DJ. We are proud to introduce our new state-of-the-art 60 x 60 outdoor pavilion dedicated for your reception. It will hold 300+ guests and boasts stunning lake views on each side. The pavilion features charming chandeliers, cafe lights, and tulle with a gorgeous fireplace and waterfall for the perfect ambiance. There’s also an outdoor patio with gorgeous views of Lake Elsie, perfect for your cocktail hour.
Ask About Our Bar Service & Safe Shuttle Ride for Guests
Lake Elsie Wedding Barn is licensed for beer, wine, and spirits and you may also opt for your guests to safely arrive back to their accommodations with our shuttle bus.
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Contact our team to start planning your dream wedding
Call 701-242-7520, email [email protected] or use this short form for more info, to check availability, and to arrange a tour.